Central to this debate is the evidently widespread inability of men to choose a partner who doesn’t dislike their principal hobby 
Lots of men got into this hobby after they were married but those who got into it before remain a mystery to me. Well, we can all make jokes about how men choose women Justine often jokes that I am unable to find anything in the fridge above chest height 
Almost no woman would make such a choice.
Peter wrote:
Lots of men got into this hobby after they were married but those who got into it before remain a mystery to me.
It feels good to be a mystery man.
Yup! Got my license a few days after my 24th birthday.
What I meant was: "those who got into it before and found their hobby eventually blocked by their new partner remain a mystery to me
Let’s say I was divorced with 2 kids (either living with me, or much more likely not, but with contact). I would not look for a woman who can’t stand kids. Whoops… I have met a number of men who did just that…
